The worst part was going through the agony of chemotherapy with little hope of success. My cancer had become resistant to everything but dangerously-high levels of dexamethasone by 2009: why should it be anything other than more resistant now?
And there’s the surprise: this week’s measurement demonstrated a significant drop in the level of cancer. A chemotherapy that failed me years ago is now working. This is wonderful news because the likelihood of achieving remission after donor lymphocyte infusions is greater if you demonstrate a response to reinduction chemotherapy!
|The right eye is damaged. Click for larger view.|
Not all the news is good, though. Myeloma has attacked my right optic nerve in the form of non-arteritic anterior ischemic optic neuropathy (AION), a devastating disease leading to blindness. I have some vision at the moment, but not much. The left eye has not been attacked thus far, but both eyes are often affected. If I make it three months without losing the left eye, I will probably be safe. The only thing that can be done to protect my remaining eye is to fight the cancer, which is something you can safely bet that I’m doing.
Since recently accepting that I had fallen out of remission after the allogeneic transplant, I have had to also accept the likelihood my impending death (median survival at progression, 4-6 months). I’ve been addressing all of the pressing things a dying person has to do to make life easier for those he will leave behind. I’ve been once more thinking about my Bucket List, although it is much emptier now than when I first wrote about it years ago. But the sadness was inescapable. I had the the sense that most of the things I thought important to do would be for the last time. For example, I’ve been showing Ivonne my favorite movies (Casablanca, African Queen, Lawrence of Arabia, etc.) being quite aware that I would never be seeing them again. I’ve been teary. I’ve worked hard to be a good father and husband, protecting my family and guiding them. I’ve been in the arena with Death for so long now I’ve become inured to my inevitable defeat: I’ve fought the best fight I could, which is comfort enough. I grieve rather for the sorrow and hardship I will leave behind.
Well, screw that! The game’s not over yet! The oppression on my heart has lifted. Cancer, I’m ready for you. Take your best shot! You are MINE!